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What is your Breakup story?

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'); It’s been an year since we broke up and I remember each and every moment I went through in this one year and how I am coping up with it. Break up and heeling is a process and there are no first things. It's a journey, which brings a shift in ones life. I am just sharing my own experiences. There would be no first things or what all things I did post breakup but it has been an experience, which brought immense change in me and which still is bringing a change as I write this post, this is the first time I am sharing what I went through and what I am going through in this journey of change.                   Photo Credit :- istockphoto We did our MBA together and half way through our MBA we fell for each other, it started with a sweet friendship and at that time she was already in a relationship and then over the period of time we came closer and closer to each other and she broke up with her boyfriend at that time. (Don't hate...

12 Tips to build trust in your relationship

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How to Build Trust: 12 Important Tips 1. Be True to Your Word and Follow Through With Your Actions The point of building trust is for others to believe what you say. Keep in mind, however, that building trust requires not only keeping the promises you make but also not making promises you’re unable to keep. Keeping your word shows others what you expect from them, and in turn, they’ll be more likely to treat you with respect, developing further trust in the process.                                                Photo Credit:-  istockphoto   2. Learn How to Communicate Effectively With Others Poor communication is a major reason why relationships break down. Good communication includes being clear about what you have or have not committed to and what has been agreed upon. Building trust is not without risk. It involves allowing both you and o...

Tips to make your Long-distance relationship work||True Story

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  Trust me when i say this: YES!! YES!! YES!! YES!! Long Distance Relationships are successful. You still don’t believe. Let me tell you how :                Photo Credit:-  istockphoto People tend to think that long distance relationships are one of the hardest possible ways of loving someone, that it sucks reall..llly bad. Which makes me think, have you ever tried a long distance relationship yet?? Have you ever fallen for someone who stays miles apart from you?? Hmm..mm Because ‘suck’ doesn’t even begin to cover it. As a matter of fact whoever coined the phrase, “absence makes hearts grow fonder” was undoubtedly an idiot, as absence is making this bitch go crazy.                  Photo Credit:-  istockphoto Whether we want it or not life has a way of taking people we love & tossing them across territories. By now you must have guessed why I am writing this ...

What is love? || How can you feel it? ||(updated October 2020)

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Love is When a father buys new jacket for his child while he himself wears an old one. When a mother gets up early only to make sure that her child does not go to work hungry.  When a mother cooks for the whole family even when she has fever. When a wife listens to her husband with patience and care while he rants about a bad day.                 Photo Credit:-  istockphoto When a husband helps his wife with households while she is on her period. When an elder brother gives his chocolate to his younger sister. When an elder sister takes care of her brother while parents are not home. When a younger sister kisses her elder brother on cheeks. When a younger brother complains about the bullies and asks his elder brother to beat them up. His brother, for him is the strongest person ever. When you sleep on your mother's lap and forget about all your worries. When just a smile from the special one is enough to make your day. ...

40 tips to get a girlfriend in 2020

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I’ll give you some tips, ensure to follow them 1. Go for the girl you think is out of your league, you'll surprise yourself 2. The best relationships always come unexpectedly. 3. Never take your ex back, she tried to do better but now is settling with you. 4. Don't be too late! Propose when the attraction heat is on it's peak. Or else the attraction will decrease drastically leaving you in broken pieces. 5. Don't get too much attached too early.                   Photo Credit:-  istockphoto 6. First relationships rarely works. 7. But they are worth the experiences. 8. Don't go For the looks, cause it's the nature you have to deal with, later. 9. If she have a big attitude you got to have a bigger attitude. 10. Let her chase you. Be busy. Show her you have a life. 11. Good guys don't finish last. Boring guys do. 12. Girls find confidence sexy as hell! 13. Wise men listen ...

What are some of the famous love stories at IITs ?

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I met her for the first time during thomso, cultural festival of IIT Roorkee.                 Photo Credit:-  istockphoto She was from saharanpur campus. There was an instant spark. It clicked and I spent around the most satisfying 2 hours with a stranger. Irony was, she was with her boyfriend who was also present all the time. Next encounter 6 months later, my first visit to saharanpur campus. Only one name in my mind and a wish to see one known face. Coincidently, we met, we talked, neither i had anything to ask, nor she had anything to offer.  Still, that spark was still alive. She broke up with her boyfriend and it was all same to me. Somehow, she was curious again and I was more than happy. We kept chatting, all thanks to free wifi connection. Atleast I couldnt spend a single day without saying a 'Hi' and same was the situation with her. Somehow I got so close to her that I didnt realize I was parting from my frie...

What was your love story, that started in school?

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I am a 22 year old guy from tamilnadu,India. I have had many crushes in my life.But nothing is special like the one I am gonna share now.The love you feel in teenage especially at around 16–19 years nothing is the most stupidest yet beautiful.Here it goes:                  Photo Credit:-  istockphoto I was studying 11th in a co-ed school where it was not allowed to talk to schools.I, being a studious guy,never talked to girls and was always studying .This went on till 10th standard.Enter 11th standard.Harmones started flying and I got lazy.Since it was 11th ,there were no public exams for us. So we boys started sighting girls for fun.11th standard passed very quickly and summer holidays came.We boys all decided to join summer maths tuition since we knew our maths teacher was useless.(She is a good woman but a bad teacher) At tuition: Day one All of my gang (8 boys) joined tuition 2 days and I was the only who joined late.I h...